abused for too long, need to love

What our society keeps forgetting, because our culture encourages aversion, is that we create the society we live in, actively, every day. I think a sense of complacency has grown, a thinking along the lines of that’s just the way it is. But every day we do things, and those actions enforce the world. We need to live lovingly every day on purpose to start living in the world we say we want to live in.

The trick is that this system has so entwined our survival to its functioning. We dislike society but we partake-- yes, because we have to in order to survive. It’s the lure of luxury directly at the expense of others that is wrong. It’s inhumane because you abuse others to get what you want. You act without love, or don’t act at all.

Why can’t we see that the option where we act with love is the best one of all? I think that many don't see it because they’ve never been awarded for love before. True love returned is the only match that will fulfill true love extended. Love will be indescribably powerful when our society is completely designed to love and not to abuse.

People often say love is not enough, and I can agree. We live in a society that generates abusive settings for everyone. If we weren’t abused by society, there would be a lot more love in the world and more power to make more love. So many people have stories of childhood abuse like mine but I don’t know, I don’t hear them talked about or used as markers for what to avoid in the next world. It’s hard to talk about it but more than that, we as humanity haven’t learned from our mistakes because we don’t think they are mistakes. We don’t see because our culture hides it and makes everyone stay away through force, even when it’s unnecessary. It abuses to disguise abuse, isn’t that crazy? We live in a culture of ignorance and bigotry. Related, but separate techniques to keep us from acting. Many of us fight so hard for social progress because times are changing. Can you see that most people don’t want time to pass? They want to deny reality, to enforce theirs, to keep making the same mistakes.

Through counterculture and social organization, people of the past were able to make changes. And counterculture is counter to what culture exactly? Oh right.... the white supremacist capitalist patriarchal (WSCP) one that it was born as. These waves in history when shit gets rocky in the world are driven by the unescapable demand of reality to exist. Reality is that all humans are actually fucking human.

Right now, we do not live in a society that supports all human beings. We know what a good human life is supposed to feel like and we, the masses, the people, can feel that the world is bad right now. It is not an environment where human life thrives. The whole idea of society is that we build it to support ourselves but it's turning us into monsters and killing all of us. Can we please, for the sake of ourselves, transition to a society that cares about the beautiful lives all of humanity could live rather than killing lots of people for paper and numbers? That is the best version of reality and we could make that happen, instead of doing all this poisonous bullshit. 
 
​Your actions are you. They’re the you that’s part of humanity, always, even if you as a human are made of more than your actions. I think the issue in our society is that it’s always one action or the other, when the whole time it’s you versus the relationship (the actions) you could have with the other. People who have been truly in love understand this concept better than anybody else.