your relationships

Do you know what portion of your life has been shaped by love? There exists a base relationship with reality that's been loveless for as long as I can remember. I think fixing this first naturally leads to better quality relationships in your life and an overall better world. I believe the quality of all the relationships in your life affect what quality person you are. You might try to fix the relationships first, but I think it's harder for people to then extend that mentality to the whole world. If you start big first, it's much easier to apply the concept to specific contexts. ​

There is a lot of progress society needs to make in terms of understanding and subsequently creating real love. Foremost, queer love is essential to understand. On the personal level, you need to know this before you can build any loving relationship. Secondly, we need to change our mindset around dichotomies. We are shadowy creatures; we create shadows, but we exist in the light too. It has never been about one versus the other, it's about one and two. We need even and odd. Duality and multiplicity are identity man, they have always been identity.