December 23rd, 2024

I've been trying to figure out my strengths and weaknesses but I am surprised by my unawareness. I frequently judge and criticize others on the same traits I have. I have a domineering voice that lowkey controls me whether I like it or not. I'm invisible whether I like it or not. I'm a flirt and attractive to certain types of people, and maybe I should use that to my advantage more, be more strategic. I can act well alone but work at maximum everything if working with the right people. ​

A moral dilemma I've been having is calling out condescension. Isn't it condescending to call somebody out for being condescending? What do you do to let them know? My condescension manifests as anger and in college I was super fucking angry all the time. But is anger a useful tool to deal with people who talk down to others? Is a kind approach really the answer? lllkasdkkjdfhshhhh i do not know.